Let's be Real...

  Let's be real... not everything is always dandelions and roses. Not every moment is happy and exciting and all you've ever dreamed of. Being married is no walk in the park, especially being married young. Some people, usually our age are envious, or say " must be nice " and "why can't I find someone". Then you have the other group our age saying "you're throwing your life away already, you don't get to experience things!" Or "school is first and marriage is second!" (Typical *rolls eyes*) AND you have adults and surprisingly , sometimes adults are way less encouraging then your friends. You have the "I wish I would've waited" "wait til after school" "live together first to test out the waters" etc.

   I've literally heard these things about 20x each. Expected, right?We're filled with a generation of "relationship goals" and "I'm trying to achieve something in life". That's fine, if you want to go to school and then get married and live life that is TOTALLY FINE! Do you!! But when it comes to young marriage and you think it's crazy and a "stupid" idea. Let me tell you something. 

  I LOVE who I'm with. We both have same goals and individual goals we want to achieve. We are living life just as you are,if not it's more exciting 😉We are going to go to school.We have been on such a big adventure no one we know has done what we have done. There is no one our age that has done it. We can live with each other and have no guilt or discourage about it because we're married, I use to think differently about this too and sometimes I still wonder why it's so bad but I've realized more and more. It's no easy deal! Haha but I mean COME ON I get to wake up every morning to my best friend!! Being able to be with your absolute best friend and live life together and just get each other is so cool. This is the best decision I've ever made. 

   This is where I mean it's not easy though. You've got all these people saying stuff like this, you're both still learning each other and you are young! So you listen to people sometimes and you start to get sad. Not because of who you're with but because of the responsibility you have now. Because of the bills coming in that you're trying to scrape by to pay, because you want to have a marriage life and a social life and both put together. Like this stuff is not easy to do but it's possible but everyone thinks it's not. You really just have to try and go with the flow of life. 

  The whole point of this is life now isn't easy as a young married couple. But if we were older it would be the same. People who call us "too young" haven't been in the position we have. They're not us. And if it's from experience they've had, again, they're n

ot us. So let's be real and say it's not easy but it's worth it. Sometimes I have to remind myself that too. 

  So, to all the people who call us to young or say we should've waited... We love you, you sweet, naive people❤ and to everyone who has supported us thank you! We are doing so well. This blog went off track a little but I hope you eat the point! Enjoy our snow!❄️#lanzoneadventure