The Challenges

Hey y'all! Sorry I haven't posted in awhile I'm still adjusting to everything. Everything in Florida, new things in my life, and recent events. So I totally apologize I hope y'all still love me and we can just give each other a virtual hug😍 so recently I haven't been doin too much new things, the bachelor is coming to an end and That is such a mood adjuster in the moment, thank God Tony likes the show as much as me and I have someone to talk to about it, it's seriously great when you and your spouse have a show/ shows that you like to watch together!!

  As many of you know me and Tony broke our lease for our apartment! This is sad and scary and good and bad. All at once. It was such a cute apartment but our goal now is to get a house! Well for most places in order to get a house you have to have a years worth of renting soo looks like we're gonna have to look for a place to rent now. So that is one of our many challenges we've been facing.

  Like adulting is an actual scary and really thing.We have so many bills and things we need to remember but it's so hard when all you wanna do is get new pretty clothes like all your friends and go out all the time like everyone else, but we're the adulting married people... which we actually love even through all the bickering, LOL! But it is hard, so much bickering because of adulting. 

  When I see posts of people being like "finally adulting and paying for my phone bill" or stuff like that I just have that straight slanted smile like an " I wish I was you, we have too many bills, where's all this money going, yet I love what I have" kinda smile. It's so wishy washy, and this is another challenge in itself because sometimes you wish you were other people and you didn't have to do this or you didn't have to pay that and you don't wanna keep asking " well why'd you buy this if we have this bill to pay" it's things like that that make you want to pull your hair out and you realize you want to go back.

  But then I have Tony and he buys something super cool and we get in an argument about why he bought it and that we need that money for the bills and we do the silent treatment and after awhile I end up loving what he bought and we can pay the bills off and I just look like a big mean baby, yes, I'll admit it and I know when he reads this he'll let me know😂 but it's true! 

  Another challenge we have is work and school and what we're gonna do when we get back home and when we're going back home. So many challenges so many prayers that I feel like I'm waiting for answers to but all I can do is sit here and wait. The Lord loves to test me a lot, seriously I feel like he's up there with popcorn watching a movie featuring me!( I know I'm not the only one) 

   But I know we'll get through it but that's just what we're going through now and some challenges you will face when you're young and married BUT constantly growing! You will say "how did we get past that" lots of "I'm sorrys I just thought" and lots and lots of love and laughter at your stupid self sometimes haha

  Currently what's new with us is honestly not too much, work is picking up, I'm starting to make face scrubs though! So if you want a face scrub I'll post a blog about them and you can let me know what you'd like or message me or go to my Facebook page, I'll have an Etsy page too soon! But that's what I'm doing when I'm not doing anything. I've been watching my favorite couple chip and Joanna a lot and reading their book, doing marriage studies, talking to my best friend, hanging out with my mom😍 and hanging out and loving on Tony when he's not working which he works all the time!! But that's okay, I know it's all meant for something I just miss him because again, I'm a big baby. Anyways, that's an update I hope y'all have a great week! Keep following my updates by scrolling to the bottom and putting your email in! Love you all! #Lanzoneadventure

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